Tuesday, 11 November 2008

• OH NOT ANOTHER ONE!!!

  Is there any way of filtering the featured posts on the main page...because if I read ANOTHER post about....Being Single..being depressed whilst single...partnerships...relationships...dating...the differences between men and women .....finding that 'special' someone.....

  I may end up gouging my own eyes from out of their sockets....or just quit visiting revelife altogether.  If I wanted to read posts about marriage/dating/partnerships and the likes all the time, I'd join datingish.  Okay, I don't mind the odd one or two...but it's getting beyond a joke here and I'm seriously considering leaving Revelife altogether because of it.

  Can't a new place be started up for christian singles (seeing as they seem to be the majority posting all these weblogs about dating and various questions etc etc) so that those of us happily single, not interested in relationships, not having an opinion on relationships and seeking to read about things other that finding that special someone, don't have to be utterly bored by the posts on the main page.

  I'm a lurker here at Revelife, I comment on posts more than I weblog (evidently), so a lot of my interest is taken up with the featured/main page topics.  I'm becoming increasingly irritated by the various 'relationships' posts appearing.  I feel like singles are being vicitimised and making themselves victims also.  There seems to be a mindset that it's wrong to be a Christian and single.   That we should be lonely, that we should be constnatly seeking for a partner, that we should be suffering all these pent up feelings of emtions because we haven't got that special someone in our lives. 

  It's exhausting trying not to be weirded out by the fact young twenty somethings would rather be tied down in relationships than enjoy their relationship with God and freedom as a single person.

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